AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. Sure that seems straightforward enough right now How are you supposed to figure out which one is going to make anal sex feel as incredible as possible for you and your partner?
Which is a good thing! Women who've been there and done that say it's a welcome addition to their sexual repertoire. But just like you must walk before you can run, you must have some sort of anal foreplay before you go for the full monty of anal sex.
Anal sex can be intimidating at first, but you can make it easier. Anal sex can be such a fun, exciting and super-pleasurable experience. However, lots of people get it so wrong that anal sex has a bad name.
More young women than ever—45 percent—are trying anal, according to the latest research from the Kinsey Institute. If you're considering having anal sex for the first time, you're probably wondering how to prepare, relax, and enjoy the intimate moment with your partner. We called in the experts: Rachel NeedlePsy.
Anal sex, though still largely considered a taboo subject, is gradually gaining wholehearted acceptance across cultures and age groups. Even though vaginal intercourse is still the number one trend since Adam and Eve ate the cursed apple, heterosexual anal intercourse is witnessing a staggering number of internet searches and bedroom participation as well. This supposedly outrageous kink has taken the young demography, especially by the storm.
Back when the ladies of Sex and The City discussed anal sex, it shocked audiences. But since then butt play has been shown on Girlshinted at on The Mindy Projectand rapped about by Nicki Minaj —to name just a few pop culture references. The stats seem to support this theory: Between and only about 9 percent of women and men reported having entered through the back door within the previous three months.
Time to unlock the back door. Anal sex is often a thing people can be nervous about if they haven't done it before. There are certain things you already know if you're something of a probut what about if you're completely new at all this butt stuff?
Not only was it taboo, it was also considered kind of — well, kind of gross. Letting someone put his penis fingers, tongue in your butt? A study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that some 40 per cent of women ages have engaged in anal sex at least once.
The emotional overture I feel before boarding a roller coaster is about the same as I feel right before embarking on anal sex : excitement, followed by mild hesitation and nervousness. The thing about every single roller roaster ride I've been on so far is that I've loved them all. No matter how many butterflies are tap-dancing on the bottom of my stomach as the ride lurches up a steep hill, the thrill I feel at the end of the ride is always worth it.